“If you initiated the kiss, you're the dominant one
You need to be comfortable with each other and have a clear understanding of what’s going on
Trust is key when it comes to rimming
Though despite its association with penetration, “being a top doesn't necessarily refer to the mechanics of how someone has sex, but the power dynamic where one person is taking the lead, or is more in control of what activities you're going to participate in,” they tell Them
Try using a little less lube for a bit more friction, creating a more intense sensation
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If you received the kiss, you're the submissive one
Topping and bottoming can refer to anal sex, vaginal sex or oral sex, and penetration is not limited to the penis